3 Things to Do If You Wish To Meet the Love of Your Life

June 24, 2020 4:44 am | by mandm | Posted in Uncategorized

Do you want to meet the love of your life? Here’s what you should do

1. Stop holding people at arm’s length
Even if opening up would mean letting a few wrong people in, it is okay. Until unless you let people come close how would you know who’s right for you?
Part of the reason we shy away from letting people in is because of our human instinct to protect ourselves from pain and heartbreak. But it leaves us without friends and love leaving us unhappy.

If you wish to feel the best of emotions of joy and happiness you would need to overcome emotions of fear.

2. Be willing to love people for who they are
Just like you, even others are trying to figure out who they are and what they want. Falling in love should not be about finding the ideal person but accepting and loving a person for who they are. No matter who you decide to commit, that person will evolve with time and so might you. Be acceptable and do not try to change the person. Instead, learn and grow together.

3. Own up to yourself
Be who you are, pretending to be someone who’s not you, would not work in the long run. Those who are meant to love the true you would love you even with your flaws. Do not try to fake your personality to please someone. You should understand it is not important for a relationship to be perfect it is however important that the relationship is authentic.

Follow the cycle to self-love to love truly
Learn to take responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and it is only by doing this that things would change. Instead of making other people wrong, you focus on improving yourself, becoming more of the person you want to be.

When you love yourself, you have the capacity to love others. And when you have the capacity to love others, the most loving of them will be magnetically drawn to you.