Website Conduct Policy

  • Do not use your profile to display your contact details to make commercial use of it
  • Do not include content that is offensive, pornographic or racist
  • See our terms of use/service agreement for more details on what type of content is appropriate.
  • Do not include your personal contact information like name, email address, home address, telephone numbers, place of work or any other identifying information in your initial messages.
  • Do not send contact information until you feel convinced that this is someone you can trust. We encourage you to take your time.
  • Do not use signature lines in your emails that include your phone numbers and addresses.
  • Do not use your regular or official email id for communicating with a person you don’t know well.
  • Do not arrange for your prospective match to pick you up or drop you at home.
  • Do not go to a secluded place or a movie alone at the first meeting.
  • Create a detailed profile to enhance the chances of finding the partner of your choice.
  • Remember that you are in control of your online experience at all times. You can remain completely anonymous until YOU choose not to.
  • Set up a separate email account for communicating. Trust your instincts and start by sharing only your email address and communicating primarily via email.
  • Look for inappropriate behavior or inconsistencies. Genuinely interested people will respect your space and allow you to take your time.
  • Ask a friend to read the emails you receive – an unbiased observer can spot warning signs you missed.
  • Stop communicating with anyone who demands you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into disclosing it.
  • A photo will give you a good idea of the person’s appearance, you can use the Photo Request option on M and M Matrimonial Services, Since M and M Matrimonial Services offers free scanning & upload services to its members.
  • A phone call can reveal much about a person’s communication and social skills. Consider your security and do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger.
  • The meeting online enables you to collect information gradually and deciding whether to pursue the relationship offline. You are not obligated to meet anyone. Go at your own pace!
  • Remember that you are in control when it comes to taking an online relationship offline.
  • Even if you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. Trust yourself. Go with your instincts.
  • When you choose to meet offline, we recommend that you include either or both of your families. If you trust the person enough you could meet them separately. When going on a single date always inform a friend or your family about your meeting time, place and time of return for safety reasons.
  • When you decide to meet face to face with someone for the first time, choose a public place (such as a restaurant / cafe) and a time when many people are around and arrange your own transportation to and fro.
  • For the first meeting it is recommended not to meet the other person alone. Take a friend or relative along and ask him/her to do the same.
  • In case you do decide to meet him/her alone, leave the name, address and telephone number of the person you are going to meet with your friend or family member. Take a phone along with you.
  • Watching for warning signs and acting upon it is the best way to avoid any uncomfortable situation.
  • Ask a lot of questions and watch for inconsistencies. This will help you detect liars & cons, and it will help you find out if you’re compatible.
  • Pay attention to displays of verbal aggression, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control you. Acting in a resentful manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments, or any physically inappropriate behavior are all warning signs.
  • Involve your family or your close friends in your search for a life partner and do not take a decision unilaterally.
  • Watch out for money scams. There are just too many con artists and scam artists around the world, and they are everywhere.
  • Take all the time you need to decide on a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. Be responsible about romance, and don’t fall for the oldest con tricks of people who shower love and affection at the first instance and disappear later. Don’t become prematurely close to someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online.
  • Using your own good judgement is your best bet because ultimately you are responsible for your personal experience. Trust your instincts and move with the right person.
  • If you do have an unpleasant experience you must report it to the authorities.

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